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“When I say
winning is an attitude, that’s
what I mean. No one ever
got anywhere,
accomplished anything, or survived any
amount
of ill luck by being negative."
~ Pat
Summit,
Women’s Basketball Coach
University of Tennessee |
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Each and every day we have the opportunity to look forward. All too
often athletes are more concerned about what they did not do in yesterday’s
performance rather than focusing on their accomplishments. Attitudes
are developed by our view or how we see things. Success is more often
achieved and repeated when athletes believe they have accomplished
something. Building on successes enhances ones outlook because it
creates joy. Joy creates positive feelings. I challenge you to identify,
and write down three positive things you accomplished in practice
or in your most recent competition. Repeat this exercise each day
for the next five days. Then go back and review these cards at the
end of the week.
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Using Positive Self-Affirmations in Sports
Written by John R. Ellsworth, M.A., Sport Psychology
Consultant & Mental
Game Coach
Have you ever
wondered why it seems that certain athletes succeed where others
seem to struggle with success?
The people who succeed know how to program their minds for success,
while others may be operating under a cloud of negative suggestions,
statements or beliefs. The challenging news about what we say to
ourselves is that these beliefs developed early in life and have
become a regular method we use to communicate to ourselves. The
good news is that this pattern can, with practice, be corrected.
The method of using positive self-affirmation, or positive self-talk
to change your internal communication with yourself is simple.
The process is so easy that it is often overlooked or underestimated
as a powerful tool to help athletes with positive change and improved
success.
What is a Positive Self-Talk Statement?
First, a self-talk statement is a statement you make to yourself
all the time. The mind is always talking and advising you about who
you are, how you should feel, and reinforcing the type of person you
are or ought to be. A positive self-talk statement is a comment you
make to yourself on a regular, frequent basis to reprogram your conscious
mind with an idea, belief, reality or attitude that you choose for
yourself.
How often have
you doubted yourself either before or after an athletic performance
or event? When you achieve success during athletic competition you
are either excited and reward yourself with positive statements,
or you might repeat negative statements to yourself like, “You choker,” or “Why can’t
you get it right,” or “I can never seem to get this done the way
I want to.”
Positive self-statements
are a powerful way to replace negative “mind chatter” in
your conscious mind. Mind chatter is an unproductive, unconscious guidance system
outside of your awareness that controls your behavior with “value related
statements.” If the mind is going to talk to you anyway, why not have the
mind speak to you in a positive way. If we had conscious awareness of how we
talk to ourselves, would it not makes sense to invest the time to make positive
statements to ourselves rather than negative ones?
Why do Positive Self-Statements Produce Results?
Positive Self-Talk statements help to reprogram the mind. They are
the nourishment the mind and personal self-esteem need to reprogram
a belief in self. They are the encouragement statements that cultivate
new thoughts to take root and grow. As you continue to repeat the
statements, the new thoughts become stronger and permeate your unconscious
mind until a new belief system is fully established, flourishing,
and bearing positive results in your daily performance.
Some statements take root rapidly and bear fruit quickly. Other
issues or thought patterns require more time before they ripen and
bear new fruit or new performance thought patterns. I worked with
an athlete for an entire season to overcome his belief that he was
an unsuccessful pitcher - that could not throw strikes no matter
how hard he tried.
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“ I was a real
mess during the fall baseball season.
It was so hard for me to see the positive and success
from my performances. As soon as I walked a batter,
the negative talk would start. From that point
forward my mind was telling me I was
‘choker’ and could not get hitters out.”
~
Ryan
- Pitcher /Nor Cal - JCC
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Remember, that your actions or beliefs have often existed for quite
some time, so allow four to six weeks at a minimum for this process
to produce results, and more time for optimal results.
Important for Best Results
Always phrase
your self-statements positively and in the present tense. The unconscious
mind, which makes pictures from your words, does not register negatives.
When you tell your unconscious mind, “Don’t
miss that fast ball,” the mind makes a picture of missing the
fastball, and then has to find a way to cancel that picture and
generate a new behavior. This three-step process is very complex
and does not help to generate positive behavior. This also explains
why you continue to do the things that you tell yourself not to do.
Tell your unconscious mind exactly what you want it to do and it
will follow the instructions you give it, especially when you repeat
the instructions calmly and cheerfully for a period of time – four
to six weeks. Here are some examples of positive self-statements:
- My performance today will be the best I can give regardless of
the weather or conditions of the field.
- I choose to see myself performing effortlessly as I glide through
my wind-up and delivery with confidence and focus.
- I love to compete; I love the energy of being in a field of runners,
bikers and swimmers and choose to focus on remaining present and
in the flow.
- By having my pre-at-bat plan and sticking to my plan, there is
success without judgment regardless of the outcome.
- I choose to take the success from practice into the game with
confidence, and trust in my ability to be a winner.
- Being in the flow and in the process of my own race means no judgment
and no analysis.
- My training has prepared me for this day. I am confident that
my training success has prepared me for this day.
Let positive self-statements become a positive force in your athletic
life, and life in general. Let this positive force enable you to become
all that you can be.
You can Improve Your Performance with Positive Self-Statements. Make
a commitment to get started now.

My daughter, a
Division I basketball player, sustained a season ending injury right
after a successful freshman year as a starting point guard on her
team. This injury devastated her because she was looking forward
to her sophomore year and her starting position. The team had been
highly ranked at the end of the previous season, and was expected
to have an even better season in the new year. She is so hard on
herself and demands perfection in everything she does – academics,
athletics, and life in general. She is currently in a rehabilitation
program, yet cannot seem to get past the feeling that she will
never be the same basketball player in the future. How do I help
her regain her confidence, reduce the negative things she says
to herself, get her to believe she will get through this process,
and perform well next season?
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John
Ellsworth knows that every athlete wants one thing—to
achieve peak performance, especially in competition. As both president
and founder of Protex Sports, LLC, John is dedicated to helping
serious athletes strengthen confidence, refine focus and build
composure to provide them the winning advantage—mental endurance.
With over 30 years of experience in business, education, coaching
and sport psychology, John is highly regarded as an accomplished
authority on achieving excellence and reaching optimal performance.
He brings a multi-faceted approach to the mental aspects of sports
and health by looking at the attitudes, beliefs and thoughts that
influence performance behaviors.
In addition to his extensive experience in both clinical and applied
sports psychology, Mr. Ellsworth has worked with sports parents,
sports teams, coaches, athletic trainers, sports agents and physicians
to train them in the skills to boost mental toughness or assist
athletes recovering from a sports related injury.
John works throughout North America
with athletes and teams from a variety of sport backgrounds. He
earned his Masters Degree from John F. Kennedy University in Counseling
Psychology with a specialization in Sport Psychology (2001); has
obtained undergraduate degrees in Business, and Psychology, as
well as teaching credentials from Hillsdale College; and is presently
working on his doctorate degree.

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